THE NOBLER SENTIMENT

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KAYSOON KHOO

There's a fine line between pity and compassion. The first merely creates sorrow within you at the sufferings of another. The second does the same, but it goes further. It prompts you to take action to alleviate that suffering.

When you see another in trouble, it's no use making sympathetic sounds and shaking your head regretfully. You might as well go your way and spare yourself the unpleasant sight. If you truly feel sorry for the other person, stretch out a helping hand. If it's not within your ability to render the kind of assistance needed, at least try to look for someone else who can. As long as you're not totally helpless, you can still do your bit.

Genuine sympathy should trigger you into action. It need not involve a lot of effort or expense. Sometimes words of encouragement and comfort go a long way towards lessening another's pain. Lending him a patient and sympathetic ear can also do the same. The important thing is to let the sufferer know that someone cares.

If you see someone dying of thirst, don't just commiserate with his plight. Develop the nobler sentiment. Fetch him a glass of water.